thanks for the help

katheryn · Oct 21, 2005, 12:21 PM

i keep comming on and reading what ppl have to say sometimes just reading other ppls writings helps, most of my problems are like anybody elses i have been on medication now for 3rd time the first was because as my son doesnt sleep i think i just ended uo worn out i didnt let my husband now that i was struggling with the demands of my son , then year before last my daughter who has disabilities went to the place she goes and said some things that nearly ripped my family apart my husband was never taught how to deal with this afterwards we just got on with things this did cause a big strain between us , then this year with all the money problems and the children and im the sort of person who atracts other ppls problems my husband sought of ways to escape and found comfort from a friend as a friedship which then put more strain on our relationship which beging of june he decided the only thing he could do was leave, which ripped my world apart but i had friends and family support i wish i sought this before as maybe with other ppl to talk to maybe i would have seen what this friend was then doing as my work colligue noticed that to drive a wedge between me and my husband she was putting us to fight so on top of the problems we allready had she wasnt helping at all even though she says she was (her problems were 1 of the ppls i had dumped on me at beging of year ) , within 2 wks of leaving she and my husband started a relationship (this was meant to be my friend ) this relationship didnt last when my husband and i was spending time togeather she started her web of distruction again untill then she wouldnt even speak to him this led to me loosing it again and ending up in hosp, my husband couldnt understand this so it put another wedge between us because of us now beibng seperated money was even a biger problem and i nearly lost the house ,our home , luckly my money was sorted out in time to stop it going to court , eventually his relationship w in troublr he phoned me one night while i was working and told me i asked if he needed to talk he knew were i was this lead to us becoming friends again but female friend dint know even though she lives next door to me within a week and half she dumped him via txt at work and he ended up in hosp 4 2 days i spent as much time there as possible as i never stopped loving him and never hated him , we then started spending time togeather up to today when he is now back home and is still having problems dealing with some of the things he thinks was his fault i forgave him but he cant forgive himself for hurting me and the children that much and is now depressed and having trouble talking about what worrys him he thinks he should of blocked it asll and just git in with things i explained this would of eventually exploded as humans we can only handle so much stress , so thank you everyone for your support to me and my husband and listning to him and myself when we use the forums

Oct 21, 2005, 07:40 PM

(((((Kathryn))))))
I don't think I've read any of your posts but I can see you've been through a lot. Just wanted to give you a hug. There are some really great people here, I know. thanks for the help