I seriously dont like titiles.

Okay so im dating a girl who lives 1000 miles away. I really care for her. shes helped me threw alot of stuff. I also recently gotten back in contact with a good friend who also i've liked since i've met him.

about a week ago i confessed to him about my feeling, well he feels the same about me. well now i think that when me and my gf meet up it won't work out. i want to be with this guy but i don't want to hurt my gf. i've already broken her heart once. and i told her id never leave her. but i never thought maddy.[the guy i like] would actually have feelings for me.

so i'm at a loss. and advice

Go with the one u love.. And make sure u break the news to ur gf in an appropriate manner..

I agree also: if you decide to continue things with your friend; then you should talk to your gf right away and explain things....the longer you wait the harder it will be to talk to her.

Here's my advice: Be honest. The sooner, the better.

I agree with what everyone else has said; be honest and the sooner the better. Especially if you haven't met her yet, I would tell her before any sort of trip is planned because then she will only be getting her hopes up to have her heart broken 1000 miles away from the comforts of home. You have to be honest to both you and her or else you're not being fair to either of you.