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Feb 25, 2011, 07:17 PM
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So apparently everyone has been telling my boyfriend that he needs to break up with me... he wont tell me why. He says he wont but it is making me more worried. I don't know if it is something I did, if they are really jealous, or, like a few people have told me, no one really does like me......
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Feb 25, 2011, 07:53 PM
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Think back and ask yourself: Have I done/said anything that he needs to be concerned about? Have I done something bad in our relationship? Have I done anything that could possibly make these people dislike me?
If the answer is no then you have nothing to worry about. If someone doesn't like you for being yourself then that's their problem, not yours. Be proud of who you are as a person and don't let others get under your skin  As far as the boyfriend issue goes; if you know you haven't done anything worth being dumped over then don't worry. If he decides to leave you it's most likely for other reasons, or from peer pressure. If he really loves you for you then he will stay. If he leaves then it just proves that you deserve better! If you really want to do something about the situation, here is what I suggest: Don't bring up the issue with your boyfriend, he may start to get annoyed. If your concerned about people liking you then just act as kind as you possibly can (without losing yourself in the process). Always remember to be yourself!  No one can dislike a nice and caring person.I hope everything works out for you!  Please keep us posted!~
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Feb 25, 2011, 08:01 PM
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As far as I know, I have done nothing to any of these people. I know that one of our friends brought up my depression to my boyfriend a few days ago, but other than that. He has Borderline Personality Disorder and he knows that I am very patient with him (which I am glad my patience works for something because the amount I have has gotten me in trouble before).
Thank you for the advice. I will keep an eye on things. |
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Feb 25, 2011, 08:06 PM
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Everywhere you go in life, there are going to be people who like to cause trouble. There might be someone who is jealous of you and just wants to make some trouble for YOU. It's just best if you ignore this whole thing, and go on as usual with your boyfriend. Don't even mention it unless he does, and then just answer any questions he asks. Other than that, don't even talk about it.
It's just not worth it. Hugs, Lee |
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