Hard hard break up. I need insite... Please!!!

Ok so my recently ex she has did and bipolar and pstd .....so as you can imagine she has... A mess quite frankly. She's been going to therapy. But she doesnt have a family oriented therapy which I think is important... But my question is because I've been going through this with her. We were together for a year. Lived together and everything. Then she went manic and psychotic and delusional. Thinking I was after her and all that stuff... So we were separated for a year. Not having any communication. Well after four months she tried commuting suicide, I was there for that then again we went our own ways. It was so hard for me I didnt want it. But she did. She had numerous girlfriends then like ten months later we started talking and then we eventually got back together. But only for five months... They swicthed her meds... She stopped being able to sleep she would clean all the time and say god was talking to her. She's having parties going out of her way to make friends and talking a lot.... Manic or hypomanic? She broke up with me again. Saying she needs to work on her. Saying we will get back together and how much she still loves me... 5 hrs later she started accusing me of cheating on her... She utterly twisted some facebook comments. So she says she totally done with me. That she was going to break up with me anyway and she's been flirting a lot with other girls. She won't talk to me he just gets angry. Se really seems like she's done. There's no convincing her I didn't cheat. I don't understand how one week she talks about how well get married one day and how he wants to grow ol with me. Then all this... What does it sound like to you? Am I in denial and jut hoping it's her illness and it will pass... Or is she in her right mind and is really done. I'm the only one that has ever been tere throughout this. So it just doesn't make sense......
If you could lete know what you think that would be so appreciated. I need it thank you

I'm sorry you're struggling in this unpredictable relationship ATM. With all the 'he's and she's' in the post, it's hard to tell if this is a same sex relationship or heterosexual -would you mind sharing your gender?

I think to save your own mental health, you need to tell her nicely that you want to take a break and she should get herself stable before you and she negotiate the status of the relationship. ATM her emotions and reactions are coming from her mental illness therefore she can't even trust her own feelings...... you certainly can trust them either. It will continue to feel like a wild unpredictable roller coaster ride. You can make it clear you care for her welfare, but you need to take care of yourself. if I were you I wouldn't participate in Facebook or any other exchanges with her.

Yep...I agree Also agree with lynn P.

my boyfriend has bi polar he said similar things wanted to move in with me on monday and dumped me via text on sunday , it hurts like hell but u know what , its more difficult to be with someone like this walk away now and save urself , this will keep happening x

Oops I made a typo...meant to say 'can't' not can. What a difference the 't makes lol.