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Jun 26, 2011, 07:25 AM
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our relationship with our 19 year old son is very fraught, he thinks he knows best, he has very strong ideas about relationships with females he thinks he is in love after a few days, im not saying he isn't but he then goes on to make decisions on the word i love u, this time a young girl happens to be living in her own flat(rental) after being kicked out from home all i know he know thinks he wants to move in with her after knowing her a week, son has adhd and is medicated and also classed at this time not fit for work, i belivie she has some learning probs as well,
i said if he wants to move out and in with her we need to do it properly like go through social services who most probably helped get the flat in the first place i dont want to make him our enemy by telling him he cant move in , so at the moment i have told him he can stay there and she can stay here till we do it properly, ty for letting me rant, if only our children would believe us when we say i know this because this is what happened when i was your age, 
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Jun 26, 2011, 07:35 AM
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Hello, katheryn. Good luck in getting this sorted in a manner that is best for all.
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Jun 26, 2011, 08:19 AM
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ty its one of those things were a child has to stand on there own two feet but i know its not right and he should know, even the girls gran says its not right, but once they reach that age they just dont listen any more they think we are just here to upset there plans
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