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Old Jun 24, 2011, 05:10 PM
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James has texted me today out of the blue. Why he does that. He does this after every couple of months. I moved on (only to find out that Eric doesnt want me too),and his these lil texts remind me of the pain i have had two yrz ago. He has a steady gf now whom he intends to get married to.

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Old Jun 24, 2011, 07:47 PM
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I'm sorry and I understand the pain. *hugs*
Don't let it get to you. Looks like both of you have moved on. If you must, block his number if it bothers you so when he does text you.
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Old Jun 25, 2011, 12:23 AM
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Im still amazed at the strength of feelings i 've had for him though. I was so so so so much attached to him. ^_*
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Old Jun 26, 2011, 01:58 PM
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jiakhan, you might look up the word narcissist and see if the criteria fit your man.
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Old Jun 28, 2011, 03:17 AM
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James has texted me today out of the blue. Why he does that. He does this after every couple of months. I moved on (only to find out that Eric doesnt want me too),and his these lil texts remind me of the pain i have had two yrz ago. He has a steady gf now whom he intends to get married to.
Little confused on who James vs Eric is...but it probably would be a good idea to let this person know that it is no longer appropriate for him to communicate with you every couple of months. Get the boundary out there and then enforce it.
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Old Jun 29, 2011, 04:14 PM
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Direction, what pinches me most is that he himself told me to not contact him again, and when i finally stopped...he still texts every couple of months. An A-hole.
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