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Old Aug 06, 2011, 02:05 AM
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Not really wanting to be re-aquainted with the hesitant, "I love You Too", response.
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I've known a person for 4 years, and their personal [not to deep], but personal triumphs and set backs. We seem to have mutual careing and respect for one another. . Now the "But"? but for we are long distance, and can pretty much sit watching internet movies or shows, and enjoy them together.
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We're both in agreement that doing this IRL would not change the comfort zone we share. Just we seem to both share another commonality, anxiety when it comes to trust, and venturing out of the comfort zone we both now share.
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I on one hand want for this. My Great , Great Friend [ <3 ] is seemingly more "Why Not?" I just would never want to let this person down!!. Maybe my social phobia spills over sometimes to my *getting it right* and not disappointing someone, who I would drop everything for., So that they could realize the happiness they give me..
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Old Aug 06, 2011, 10:36 AM
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Sometimes a simple little gift or a note can say more than we can.
Thanks for this!
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Old Aug 07, 2011, 02:28 AM
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Thank You Korin,
Honestly?, I used what I wrote and shared it in whole. Much easier than to try and explain in any other words, that weren't, from the moment. As I posted here.
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In relationship world?, sometimes the first thing you think and say ?, is more true from the Heart <3
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Old Aug 08, 2011, 01:04 AM
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Talking becomes more easy. So it seems . Distance has it's downside. But for relationships? Kind of feels more easily transfersable. Communication, and the nailing down on another aspect to commitment? We are both aware of trust. And atm? , taking another step forward.. small steps are a key to looking forward to a bigger jump.
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