Hi.

i use the word 'dominatrix' because that's what most mainstream people call it. I just called her my domme.

Anyway i really liked her and everything but the social phobia was interfering i thnk. I have to wonder if i didn't have the social nxiety whether i would've continued the relationship.

i have a week to think about it before its officially off.

Thoughts?

Hello, Illegal Toilet. From what you wrote, I understand you broke off the relationship. What has changed that causes you to question your decision?

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Hello, Illegal Toilet. From what you wrote, I understand you broke off the relationship. What has changed that causes you to question your decision?

Probably the fact that she was disappointed to see me go. I had imagined that i was a poor sub, but apparently not. Now i'm thinking if i should go back or not.

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Have you talked to your Dom about how you feel you are a poor sub? Communication is key in D/s relationships, there has to be complete trust there for the amount of power exchanged. Sit down and talk to her how you feel and your insecurities, any good Dom will have open honest communication with you and you can work together on why you have the insecurites about being a poor sub.

Wishing you the best
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Edit: Feel free to pm me anytime if you need to talk, I live a D/s style relationship with my bf.

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How are you doing Illegal Toilet? Thinking of you and hoping all is well.