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Nov 18, 2011, 06:38 AM
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Why is it that I always want people I cannot have??? Whether it be married men, a boss, my therapist, and so on.... I tend to always find myself wanting these types of men....any advice....
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Nov 18, 2011, 02:35 PM
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Everybody wants what they can't have - it's just the way it is. Maybe, don't focus so much on the things you perceive that you can't have and concentrate on what you have already. Not much help huh.... |
 blondemom, missbelle
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Nov 18, 2011, 03:38 PM
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maybe its the challenge, or maybe its because you know you can't have them..a game perhaps???
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Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich The road to hell is paved with good intentions. "And psychology has once again proved itself the doofus of the sciences" Sheldon Cooper 
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Nov 18, 2011, 09:07 PM
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I've been there and still find myself "there".. I do believe it is the challenge and if you're like me you would most likely toss them to the side if you should achieve this "goal"... it IS a game and it's lose lose for everyone involved... When you find yourself wanting a man that's untouchable remind yourself that YOU will be the one to hurt the most.. we are very emotional people...
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