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#1
Nov 09, 2011, 12:11 PM
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So he says he doesnt talk much because he thinks he'll get attached and i might not reciprocate his feelings and he'll get hurt, he doesnt want to get hurt so he talks less but that doesnt mean he doesnt like me.
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#2
Nov 09, 2011, 12:15 PM
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He got involved in 'i love u' part,not me. But that doesnt mean that i dont Enjoy being in touch with him. He made excuses for talking to me less, he said he's too busy at work. And today he's just told me that he doesnt want to get HURT. Wow. Is that a joke. Am so frustrated right now :@
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#3
Nov 09, 2011, 04:06 PM
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I think he is reasonable. He doesn't know if you really have the same feelings for him and its natural to recoil away from something that doesn't show 'promise'. Maybe you are giving him mixed signals?
You have to ask yourself whether you want a serious and committed relationship with him or if you're just interested in a good time. It sounds like he is looking for a serious relationship and you're on the wall.
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#4
Nov 09, 2011, 05:27 PM
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Its a bit complicated. I like another guy who doesnt like me,n this guy knows that. Shouldnt he give me some time to get over the other guy if he really likes me and wants to pursue a serious relationship with me? Or may be "he's just not that into me". I like being friends with him,u never know what might happen next..right?
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#5
Nov 09, 2011, 10:11 PM
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No. It's more like you're putting him in the back burner, ready to use because you know your actual interest doesn't like you. I don't think it is fair for him to wait for you. When you really like someone it hurts to see them infatuated with another. I think he's acting normally.
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#6
Nov 10, 2011, 05:46 AM
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But thats not fair with me
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#7
Nov 10, 2011, 08:33 AM
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just tell him that you just want to be friends. he'll probably feel hurt, but if he likes you he'll be happy that you're friends at least.
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#8
Nov 17, 2011, 04:11 PM
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I need to let go
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Nov 18, 2011, 06:38 PM
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