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#1
Nov 02, 2011, 08:07 AM
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so there's this girl that ive been friends with since the end of august. the more i hang out with her the more i like her. the problem is i dont know if she likes me more than just a friend. i want to tell her how i feel, but im afraid that if she doesnt like me like that it will become uncomfortable for her and she wont want to be my friend any more. what should i do?
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Nov 03, 2011, 06:14 PM
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I would continue with the friendship and wait to see what happens. Is there really a rush to find out how deep her feelings are? Just be cool and see what develops
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Nov 05, 2011, 11:56 PM
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its not that im in a rush, its just killing me inside to not be able to tell her how i feel. and its not just how i feel about her, i cant tell her how i feel about myself. but you're right, i should just stick to being her friend for now and see if anything grows.
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Nov 06, 2011, 07:39 AM
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Ya I agree. If its meant to be something will develop.
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Nov 06, 2011, 04:45 PM
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Hi lone wolf,
She might already sense it. Girls often sense stuff like this. I would be as sincere as possible (even though it's nerve wracking) and in a quiet moment or a pause in the conversation simply say "[her name] would you like to go on a date sometime? I happen to think you are really awesome." It's a complement, it's not forceful and it's just asking about possible taking it a step further. If she says yes, take it slow and try a few dates. If she says no, don't be afraid to tell her you are disappointed. Then you will know... and can start looking for other fish in the sea. Sending supportive thoughts your way...  Elana
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Nov 15, 2011, 08:12 AM
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i've been trying the whole just stay friends thing, and it makes me feel horrible. i really want to tell her but i can't build up enough courage to tell her.
 What can i do to make it easier? should i just tell her that i like her and ask her out? Please help.
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Nov 28, 2011, 05:20 PM
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the lone wolf,
Have you so far, been just about to let her know you like her, but then get discouraged? If yes, what thoughts are you having about this situation? |
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Dec 06, 2011, 10:53 AM
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its too late. i thought she liked me, but she really liked someone else. the signs were all there telling me it was someone else, but i just ignored them.
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