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Old Jan 19, 2012, 11:23 AM
Swain Swain is offline
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Im back into this realtionship with my babydaddy. He lives in georgia and now we agreed to be together and stay together and never let eachother go. Im moving to georgia so that i could have a better life for me and my kids and also to be with him and make this work this time around for all of us. He asked me to marry him and that he'll never hurt me again. Im excited to be with him but im also nervous bout being with him permnantly. Is this doubt that im having or butterflies all over. I want to know if he feels the same way. if it is true and not just a set up.
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Old Jan 21, 2012, 06:58 AM
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How did he hurt you? Did he cheat on you?? Are you sure that he's not going to hurt you again? What has he done to earn your trust?

I would say that it's DEFINITELY doubt that you're nervous! You're taking a huge step by moving to Georgia and marrying this guy! This isn't going to affect just YOUR life, but the life of your kids too. Are you sure he's going to be the BEST thing for your kids? Do they really & truly like him? Their feelings are extremely important too.

Don't jump into this. Consider what it was that he did to hurt you originally, and if you're sure that you can trust him completely. Best of luck & God bless. Hugs, Lee
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Old Jan 22, 2012, 04:45 PM
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I agree with Lee, make sure you think before making a choice. Just because it may feel great to be back togeather with him doesnt mean that ultimately it will work out. Depending on the situation of why the relationship didnt work out in the first time is defiently a question you want to ask yourself. Hope everything works out for you.
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Old Jan 22, 2012, 04:50 PM
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There is no rush to marriage. Move there and see if he truly is reformed. Will he treat you better now? I hope it works for the best but I would want to spend some time with him before marriage.
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