[Justme_55]

I feel like a complete idiot. I keep trying to get my ex to see my side of why I choose not to be with him and he just keeps telling me he hates me. It's not that I don't get the point for some reason letting go of him has been the most difficult thing ever. I'm just stupid over him, it shouldn't even matter.

[Harley47]

Well, I can only comment with the information I am privy to, which is only from this post. But going off of that, it seems rather immature of him to not at least give you the opportunity to explain why you chose as you did. Refusing to listen to your side of the story and only responding with "I hate you" is both childish and rather rude, if you ask me.

Again, that's only going off what I know, but if he's not going to at least allow you to explain yourself, I'm not sure you've lost too much in him, you know? I absolutely don't believe that you should feel like an idiot. You've tried to be polite to him and explain your decision, and he's refused that. That is in no way your fault.

I hope I was of some help. Keep your chin up, and know that you've done the right thing here.

[lynn P.]

((Justme 55)) - sorry this is happening. Its seems your ex isn't skilled at communication...to say the least. No wonder you don't want to be with him...since he says he hates you. Stop trying to communicate with an irrational person. Does he want to reconcile?

[eileenxlove]

It does matter b/c its YOUR FEELINGS not his, and your not stupid, the way he's responding to you is stupid, "I hate you", yea that is a little childish, like what "Harley47" has said too. If your doing all the communicating and he's not wanting to listen or care, one ear out the other, and gets upset. You can only put up with so much, if he's not willing to give you the same respect back, then why put up with it? You've done all you can,and he isnt. Its hard to let someone go yes,but sometimes you need to stop and think of "is he really worth all this emotional roller coasters I'm going threw with him", "if he cant learn to communicate with me and listen to what I have to say, then why am I wasting my time, if he cant even listen." Im dealing with something similar to this with my recent ex, and it hasn't been easy, it never is. So whatever the case may be, always remember to put yourself first, life is to short to deal with people who are not worth your heart. I hope this was somewhat helpful and that everything works out for you, and things get better. <3