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Feb 25, 2012 at 04:45 PM
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He has told me today that there is nothing for us in future..we dont belong to each other..we cant ever have a relationship beyond text messages and phone calls, so he has deleted me from facebook and has blocked my cell number. Im so broken and upset. Im unable to contact him now. Im longing to hear from him so badly! Why does it happen to me i dont know. I know that im very demanding but that is because im in love with him and i want to be with him. He said i will eventually move on because i cant be with him so its the right thing to do. :'( how do i get over him? Im tired of getting hurt again and again and investing my emotions in these empty relationships. I know this in my heart that if he wont come back, then my heart would never heal and i'll never be ready to love again.
But.. I want ur opinion regarding IF he comes back,that is, contacts me..should i again start talking to him and delay the suffering which has to happen sooner or later, or should i cut my heart and just move the **** on? |
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Feb 25, 2012 at 04:52 PM
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Move on and as bad as it hurts......maybe might want to look into therapy if you are not already in it, to find out why you are so needy.
You don't want him back anyway. I know you are way to special for that anyway. Sometimes we think we will never meet another guy if we let this one go...YOU WILL! I hope going to therapy and talking will make you see that you are important and special and that with time there will come someone in your life that you deserve and deserves you __________________ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich The road to hell is paved with good intentions. "And psychology has once again proved itself the doofus of the sciences" Sheldon Cooper 
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Feb 25, 2012 at 04:56 PM
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Im not in therapy but i will try to be in it as soon as i can. Thanks for replying.
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Feb 26, 2012 at 03:37 AM
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Yes, move on, don't even think "backwards" toward if he contacts you; make that not happen, delete his information from your media!
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Feb 26, 2012 at 09:39 AM
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I agree, believe me I know it sounds difficult but sometimes it is during these tough times that we are able to know ourselves more and how strong we really are. May I suggest that you surround yourself with people who love you, like your friends and family. Also try to do something that you think will keep your mind off him, like do any hobbies you like or go out more than always checking for him online. You'll make it through this, you'll see.
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Mar 05, 2012 at 11:55 AM
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I should have listened to u guys!! :'( he has broken up with me AGAIN today! :'(
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Mar 05, 2012 at 05:19 PM
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