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Member Since Jan 2011
Location: California
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Ok, so I was just thinking about this startling possibly disturbing realization.
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Member Since Oct 2011
Location: Oregon
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#2
Obviously I was not there and do not know the context or the ins and outs of your relationship. But from my perspective, iIf he was joking he has a pretty sick sense of humor. If someone asked me something like that I would play it cool I suppose but I would be pretty wary
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Member Since Jul 2011
Location: Australia
Posts: 346
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#3
HI and welcome
I guess from my point of view you don't joke about such things. You don't say you killed someone or especially saying would you like to see where we buried the bodies. Alarm bells!! Run run run and call the police. You could have been their next victim! Do you see a therapist? If we dont' confront our own maladjustment, then we attract people of the same maladjustment. I'm not saying your a killer but for example you may have self esteem issues where you feel you can't be around good people for example. I don't know but you can explore stuff with a therapist. Food for thought. |
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Member Since Dec 2011
Location: In another dimension...
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My last two relationships were strikingly similar in the way you are talking about and yes, it is disturbing thinking about it. Both own loaded guns, both have threatened to bury people (they said it jokingly to me), both have trouble with the cops, both have trouble with authority figures and both have anger issues (too much or completely repressed until it explodes) and pretty much invite trouble.
When I think about it now, I prefer to date somebody who doesn't own a loaded weapon! I sure hope it is not a pattern for me. __________________ “Learn as if you were going to live forever. Live as if you were going to die tomorrow.” - Mahatma Gandhi |
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