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Old Mar 12, 2012, 04:45 AM
AmandaBar232 AmandaBar232 is offline
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Alright so my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year and a month so far. Yesterday was our anniversary. Although tonight he had to go into work and just a few minuets ago actually he texted me saying that theres this girl that was texting him asking him if he wanted "a good ****" Sorry for the language, i just need as much advice as i can get. So I told him to tell her that he has a girlfriend and I just got really overwhelmed and upset. I dont know if its good or bad that he let me know about this girl, or not. Although since then I havent heard back from him!

My boyfriend has a history of texting girls, and recieving pictures of topless women. Also looking at porn every so often. I've really never confronted him about any of these things although I see in the texts he sends that he is complimenting them and saying that they two should hang out soon! When we are at a mall as well he acts like all the other girls are more beautiful and more attractive in general then I am. He ignores me. Especially around friends.

I love my boyfriend. I trust him to an extent and this, well I do NOT want my boyfriend cheating on me! Could I be over reacting? Is it good that I've been told about this girl texting him? And, well the overall question is SHOULD i trust him!? Please someone help!

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Old Mar 12, 2012, 09:56 AM
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Alright so my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year and a month so far. Yesterday was our anniversary. Although tonight he had to go into work and just a few minuets ago actually he texted me saying that theres this girl that was texting him asking him if he wanted "a good ****" Sorry for the language, i just need as much advice as i can get. So I told him to tell her that he has a girlfriend and I just got really overwhelmed and upset. I dont know if its good or bad that he let me know about this girl, or not. Although since then I havent heard back from him!

My boyfriend has a history of texting girls, and recieving pictures of topless women. Also looking at porn every so often. I've really never confronted him about any of these things although I see in the texts he sends that he is complimenting them and saying that they two should hang out soon! When we are at a mall as well he acts like all the other girls are more beautiful and more attractive in general then I am. He ignores me. Especially around friends.

I love my boyfriend. I trust him to an extent and this, well I do NOT want my boyfriend cheating on me! Could I be over reacting? Is it good that I've been told about this girl texting him? And, well the overall question is SHOULD i trust him!? Please someone help!
Why do you love a man who disrespects you? You deserve better than this.
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Old Mar 12, 2012, 10:01 AM
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And, well the overall question is SHOULD i trust him!?
I think you know the answer to that question.
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Old Mar 13, 2012, 11:19 AM
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Short answer - Don't trust this guy
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Old Mar 13, 2012, 01:38 PM
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Yeah he has definitely overstepped the mark.
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Old Mar 13, 2012, 01:56 PM
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Hi Amandabar232, have no regrets if you dump this rubbish, he'll keep getting his cake and eating as well as long as there are girls out there willing to put up with all his unhealthy, unfair hidden extras. Don't be that girl. A good package is about who a person is on the inside. treat yourself better by moving on to better
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