what should i think of his behavior? what should i do? please help, i'm very confused

I have this friend but recently i learnt that both he and his best friend (who is my friend too) are in love with me. I realized I'm kind of into him before I learned he's too but I didn't want anything more cause I really like our friendship. Since I learnt he likes me (i'm not sure if he just likes me or if he's in love with me or whatever) he's been very distant. He actually doesn't even speak to me. He's literally all the time with a girl from my class and that makes me both jealous and mad. I don't want a relationship but I know I'm attracted to him and want him there and i get hurt when the bell rings and he goes out with her and just ignores my existence unless I go right in front of his face. Even then he doesn't talk he just stares and then leaves. Only today he told me something and I mentioned he didn't talk to me for 3 days and he said something like "I didn't notice" or something and then he told me teasingly that i take it amiss easily. Any good advice? I can't just leave it like this. (I should also mention that he wasn't the one who told me he likes me, his best friend told me about both.)

I think you have too much going on in your head that you haven't straightened out (wanting him as friend but wanting him as more also) and are listening too much to he said/she said/I think he feels. . . and are just spinning your wheels.

We cannot control other people, just ourselves; if he is "ignoring" you at the moment that's too bad but that's the way it is; concentrate on being the flower/ (working on your life) and let him be the bee, you can't follow him and his activities around when you are supposed to be working on you and your activities. He has to tell you what he thinks about you; his friend can only speak for himself and has his own agenda; speak directly to people about what they think and feel, don't listen to others' talk.