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Old Mar 31, 2012, 09:49 PM
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every guy that i come across and develop an interest for views me as a freak just because i don't look very prettyits like im untouchable just because im not drop dead gorgeous like a celebrity nor am i skinny like a skeleton, when will men stop looking at whats on the outside and focus more on whats within, i don't have fancy wrapping paper but within im a great girl to be with just give me a chance to show you what i can do
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Old Mar 31, 2012, 09:59 PM
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Well if they aren't interested in you because of how you look, are they really worth knowing anyway? It would end up being one of those situations where you didn't connect at all - he's just into you for your body. And what sort of relationship is that?

Just ignore the guys who aren't interested just because they don't like how you look. They're superficial and shallow. Certainly not worth your attention.
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Old Mar 31, 2012, 10:07 PM
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Honey, I know where you're coming from.

I'm guessing you're a teen like me and let me tell you this. Teen guys are shallow. They'd go for something that is viewed in society as ''beautiful''. Who knows, there is that one guy who likes you just for who you are and even secretly likes you. But is afraid of what others would think. Give them some time.

It would take some time for them to realize that a 'beautiful' girl is not what they need to be happy.

I'm feeling the exact same way as you are. And I'd rather wait for someone who would truly like me for being me. Don't be in a rush to get into a relationship just 'cause all your other friends are. Concentrate on what's really important. Things like this can't be rushed at all.

Hugs coming from me. Love yourself! You are unique!
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