[Irine]

What you fall in love with, and what you adore - they are 2 different things. Learn to tell the difference. If you allow yourself to be loving, exposed, weak - with that which you adore - it will abuse you. If you let yourself be exposed with that which you fall in love you will be seen for real. You will be healed. If you adore that which you fall in love with you will be stuck in your life. If you try to follow the footsteps of that which you adore you will grow to be like it. You can even grow beyond. That which you adore - you recognize in yourself. That which you fall in love - you are attracted to and nothing will ever separate or replace it.