[Dan12345]

Okay so where to begin I'm kind of in a relastionship at the moment have been for 2 years now, but she split up with me 2-3 months ago, and we are 'Enjoying each others company'. The thing is we are acting like a couple and say all the same stuff we did before and we just are not offical again, but I'm so so angry because to be honest I used to stay her house all the time and stuff, but now she ses it's hard because her family are angry with me but I don't know why, she finished me over the phone and went to Ireland and ignored me for a week then I meet someone else and she wants me back... She lives away from home until this july as shes finishing uni so I hardly see her at the moment and sleeping in the same bed is a given really as I want to cuddle her. Yet she always makes sure that she know's I'm not staying over.

But at the end of the day I love her to bits seriously but she's changed so much from when I first met her and she's not compromising for me in anyway, she doesn't want sex before marridge now but she slept with me recently then chose that and she said she's sorry but it still hurts me so so much, I dunno what to do because I feel like this heavy feeling on my chest and I feel sad, I could just cry at this moment, why did she have to change?

Also the way she speaks to me sometime is horrid. I feel like I make all the effort too organise things, I end up paying for things all the time as she has no money. I love though so damn much I'd die for her but things have to change and it's no good talking about it because she just takes offence and tries to turn it on me thinking she's not in the wrong. She can be so damn nice just wish it was all the time.

What do I do because if we finish it might not be the right choice I make, I have a fair few girls intrested in me who seem to want to make a massive effort and I could stay round there houses...

I just dunno really need some good advice

[Leed]

Why did she break up with you? Do you know? Have you found out why her folks are mad at you?

Unless there's more to this story, I'd just accept it and move on. It sounds like she's either got someone else, or has turned over a new leaf. LOL Who knows. But what's the use of making yourself miserable when she's not going to budge?

Move on and find someone who really wants a relationship. Best of luck & God bless. Hugs, Lee