[afterrain]

Is it wrong to have a set time of how long one should wait before sleeping with someone? (For example: one would wait three months before sleep with someone.)

My friends that are guys say I should not have one. But I know and hear that other girls do this too. Is this a bad thing to do? Why do some guys see it as a bad thing? Do only girls do this?

Just want to know what other people think about this.

[roses4peace]

I know it sounds cliche, it's different for everyone, and every relationship. I slept with my ex after a week of being together, but then I slept with my fiance after 3 months of dating. Waiting definitely helps build up the excitement but it's a little tedious.

It just depends on the couple. Some guys are shallow and think girls are easy if they sleep with a guy too soon, but sometimes it just naturally happens. I don't think there is anything wrong with waiting or just jumping in. Whatever feels right to you! The right person will accept you no matter what.

[Leed]

I'm from the 'old' school I STILL think that guys will think you're a skank if you sleep with them too soon. There a LOT to be said for a good reputation. Word gets around VERY fast about who's easy and who isn't. I wouldln't want a bunch of guys asking me out just cause they heard I was 'easy.'

The ONLY reason I'd sleep with someone is cause I had DEEP emotional feelings for them -- not just cause I wanted a booty call. That's the way I've ALWAYS felt, even when I was young. So there's no 'time limit' on it. The limit is on your feelings, not time.