[leiar2d2]

So a week and a half ago, my bf broke up with me and I'm still unsure why. I know i need to get myself together but people that i had been close with before i knew him and are also his friends, have completely deserted me. I would talk to the one girl about issue I would have and I told him i thought they all hated me. He assured me that they do not hate me and were concerned. But I haven't heard from one person. Also, she told him all of what I had talked to her about, and I'm pretty sure it made him make the decision to break up with me. He recently changed his Facebook status to single and all these girls whom i had considered my best friend liked it. It felt like someone shot me in the heart. Now i really feel like they do hate me. I asked him what they had said to him, he told me to ask them and he wasn't getting involved. Which makes no sense since he was already involved by not confirming anything i had said to them. None of what I had said was bad, some was kind of personal, but to a best friend, I wouldn't think personal really mattered. So then I told him how it hurt to see all my friends like that fact that he is single and no longer with me. His response was, yeah i don't know why they did that, ask them. I don't want to talk to anyone of them, for I feel very alone and hurt.

anyone have any advice ???

[missbelle]

Sorry you are going thru this. Girls are not always very nice....thats an understatement. !!!! Some girls like to see another girl miserable because it makes them feel better. Oh, they are definately not your friends when they do this. Apparently boyfriend's relationship change has encouraged a lot of girls to go after him. Those girls are not worth it if they want your boyfriend.

As difficult as this is, try and stay off facebook for a while...especially keep from going on his profile/page. It will only hurt worse. I know the first thing you want to do is see whats going on, but try and let it be for a while if at all posssible


I am so sorry you feel so alone. What about family? Can you confide in them about how low you are feeling?

We are always here for you. I know its not the same but you can post and we can reply and lots of us are here 24/7

Hugs;
DEE

[leiar2d2]

well, the one girl is his roommate and girlfriend of his best friend. So I don't' think it is that. I think that everyone is just jealous cuz me and him are like the same person, minus my anxiety that got the best of me at times. But she is kind of like the leader of the other two girls, so they kind of followed in her footsteps i guess. I just don't understand why she dislikes me this much when just three weeks ago we were best buds?