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May 25, 2012, 09:45 PM
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So, this guy wanted to start up a relationship with me (this is new for me btw as I'm really bad with relationships) and I agreed that we could start dating. Thing is I"m usually the one setting up the get-togethers and now he's not talking to me much. So I'm feeling like I must have done something wrong, that he doesn't like me anymore and these thoughts just keep repeating. I"m thinking thoughts like "was I trying too hard" "did I do something wrong" "am I being annoying?"
I"m bad at relationships and feel like even this one is going sour. Am I expecting too much? Am I over-dramatizing something that may just be innocent or nothing? I'm afraid to talk to him about it, I'm just so uncertain. Sorry if this is a bit confusing or vague. |
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May 26, 2012, 06:52 AM
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How long ago did he approach you about "getting together?" Was it recently?
If it was in the last couple of weeks, why not give him a call and ask him when he wants to go out? He might be waiting for YOU to say something. Give it a try -- can't hurt. Good luck! Hugs, Lee |
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May 26, 2012, 10:04 AM
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You overthinking this. If a guy wants you, he will go to any lengths to be with you. Maybe he thought he wanted to see you, and has changed his mind. Don't keep chasing him, wait for him to come to you, if he doesn't, that's your answer.
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 Bamboo_RedPanda, Suki22
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May 31, 2012, 01:03 AM
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Thanks for the replies (sorry I took a while to write back, had to think about it all). I've decided to stop texting/calling/messaging him all-together. If he really wants to go out with me, he'll contact me. I"m tired of being the one to always contact others. If he cares about me, he'll text/call/message me.
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 Suki22
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Jun 01, 2012, 09:15 AM
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Jun 01, 2012, 11:06 AM
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