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#1
Jun 23, 2012, 06:31 PM
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How do u know if you are holding back bc u are afraid of getting hurt again, or if you are are not sure if the guy is "the one"?
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Jun 23, 2012, 06:35 PM
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IMO, you KNOW he's The 1, DESPITE being scared.
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Jun 23, 2012, 07:06 PM
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But how? What makes u know?
I feel horrible. Like I'm a horrible person. I want to cut |
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Jun 23, 2012, 07:19 PM
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You know, bcoz you want to be with them always, regardless of your fears. You know, bcoz you love them unconditionally,you know they're not perfect, but undoubtedly perfect FOR you, and having them in your life is the only choice for you. You know bcoz in your heart they are a part of you, an extention of you, and you will love them forever regardless of how things turn out. That's how I feel about it anyway. You're not horrible. If you don't know, you don't. You can't pretend to...
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#5
Jun 23, 2012, 07:44 PM
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Yea I don't so much feel like that for him. I just broke it off and feel horrible.
Thx for replying tho. |
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#6
Jun 23, 2012, 07:53 PM
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I'm so sorry
ending relationships are always painful, regardless of the dynamic. I'll be online if you want to continue to talk... Or I could just listen...
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Jun 23, 2012, 07:56 PM
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Please stay safe (((((doggiedo)))))
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#8
Jun 24, 2012, 08:20 AM
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Please let me know how you're doing... I'm concerned about you and your safety
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#9
Jun 24, 2012, 09:38 AM
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Quote:
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Jun 24, 2012, 09:53 AM
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Thanks for checking in
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Jun 24, 2012, 12:16 PM
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[QUOTE=Trippin2.0;2414788]Thanks for checking in
[/QUOTEMom asked how the bf was doing, if I'm still considering moving in with him, etc. I just said idk and changed the subject. Avoidance is all I can do at this point in time. Is that bad? |
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#12
Jun 25, 2012, 01:06 AM
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Bad? Not at all concidering how fresh it all is. There's nothing wrong with avoiding the subject until you've wrapped your head around the situation.
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#13
Jun 27, 2012, 05:22 PM
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He's already on a dating website and "talking" to some woman! Too soon! And I'm kinda pissed. I can't blame him. I broke up with him. But I'm still a little jealous. What the hell is he doing? I'd ask myself why it bothers me, but I know why...bc I cared for him. It hurts
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Jun 27, 2012, 05:34 PM
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Of cors it hurts when someone you cared for is seemingly looking for your replacement before the paint has even dried. It's a natural response, breaking up doesn't mean you get to magically eraze the past
don't get caught up in his post-relationship activities, he's doing what he needs to in order to deal. You should focus on you instead
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Jun 27, 2012, 05:49 PM
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We are trying to be friends but I think it's best for me if I try not to...its got to be a clean cut, don't u think?
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Jun 27, 2012, 07:40 PM
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All over the internet it says you should wait at least a month before talking to an ex.
So clean cut would probably help some.
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"You got to fight those gnomes...tell them to get out of your head!" |
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#17
Jun 27, 2012, 09:39 PM
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I agree. Even if you want to salvage the friendship, there should be a 'no contact' period to allow you to adjust to the new dynamic.
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