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Jul 04, 2012, 07:46 PM
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Need some serious help! My 35 yr old daughter just had her second baby to a diffrent guy. Her current boyfriend has proven that he is there for her and her son from a previous relationship, He doesn't want her to go back to work, she gave up her apartment and most of her belongings and moved into his house. he has 3 kids from a first marriage and for the summer they are there mon-fri. He is very controlling has alot of rules and my daughter is very distraught. there has been some physical abuse and daily there is verbal abuse. This is destroying me and is consuming my life with all the worry. I want to fix it and know that I can't. During the past year she would come home for days and weeks at a time but i told her she can't run away from her problems and she can't do that anymore. She now has no income and he is reminding her daily how selfish and unappreciative she is.My 6 year old grandson is witnessing this and has had a major personality change, having nightmares and is now biting his nails.What do I do? Should I tell her to come back home so she can have time to get back on her feet? Would that be enabling her? Help.
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Jul 04, 2012, 11:23 PM
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i don't think you would be ENABLING her -- I think you would be RESCUING her son and your grandson!!! If he is having nightmares and is biting his nails, and has had a major personality change, it's time to DO SOMETHING and NOW. This child is in DANGER, and so is your daughter. She just is too distraught to do anything about it right now, either thru fear of him or what. But you have GOT to get them OUT of there before something terrible happens!!
Don't even worry about enabling right now. The first thing is getting all of them home with you! They are all in danger. He sounds like a cruel man, who wouldn't thing twice about beating your daughter, and has probably already done it. If you need to, have the police go with you to get the family out of there and home with you. That way there will be NO trouble when you go to get them. God bless and PLEASE LET US KNOW what happens when you get them out of there, will you? I really want to know that they're safe, and that YOU are too! God bless. Hugs, Lee 
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 Bella01, kindachaotic
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