[aria83]

I have become friends with my ex. We see each other nearly everyday. I sometimes sleep over at his house, (we don't have sex or kiss). He's coming with me on vacation for a few days with my family. Everyone (my parents, his parents, me!) is confused about our relationship. They think we're dating again and to be honest, I'm not sure either. I think I might need some time to myself. We have talked a lot about this and agreed we both just want to be friends for right now. I think I am just over thinking this. But I worry that it might get even more confusing on vacation. Like "what does it mean that he went somewhere with me and family for a few days..."

At first I was lonely and wanted someone to hang out with. Now I'm like...omg we are getting too close. I am having feelings for him but I don't know if I want to be in a relationship with him like be his gf. I don't want to right now, anyways.

Should I just relax and have fun? I just don't want anyone to get hurt again. Me or him.

[Leed]

Whether or not you recognize it, I believe you DO have feelings for him. I think you're still stuck on him but you're either in denial, or you're just trying to hide it -- but I can see it, so I imagine others can too.

It makes no sense to hide it anymore. Why not just TELL him you want to try again? It might just work out this time, since I'll bet you both have learned something since you've parted. How long have you been apart? Why not try it again? Maybe it will work this time, and it not, you have us to help support you.

I wish you the very best. Please take care and God bless. Hugs, Lee