the other female

oldest daughter with all her problems has a link with some of the things we want to let go and have nothing to do with , i expect if you have read any of my or my hubbys threads we have both said about this best friend of mine who became the other woman , well daughter had this thing about needing contact with her , as we live next door shes hard to avoid as the days are getting nicer our street is very friendly and on many ocasion daugter will bump into this female , up untill a couple of weeks ago there was no contact but lately things are getting awkward for me and hubby and rest of her siblings ,
tonight on the way home from her youth club , whuich her sister picked her up from she made a scene about going the other way home ,no 2 daughter explained there was to many ppl around the normal way home she avoided them to stop any confrontation because some of the children living around us are not very nice and can be quite mean , well as she comes in the house trying to make a big scene about this no2 daughter explained that this female happened to be outside and asked no1 daughter how she was which made no 2 daughter feel uncomfortable also made me and hubby cross and even younger brother and sister dont like how this female interfered in our lives , especially as i myself od after one of the weeks she interfered then when hubby was of no interest to her again she dumped him by text which because he had left his family for this female he od as well then again a few mts later he tried again because he was feeling like he didnt deserve to be given another chance with his family , we are sorting out problems and are very strong at the moment
so no 1 daughter sometimes going out of her way to have contact with this female, this brakes my heart with out having to explain how her involment nearly made me give up on life , which she doesnt know about , with her learning dificulties she doesnt understand much ,
soon we will be away from here because we are loosing the house but i am going to try to live in another area because of this female , but even when daughter is with the group she goes to and shes in town female still trys to comunicate with her ,
sorry this might be hard to read i was ranting

I am really sorry this woman seems to have no sense and I would be very hurt too if I were in your spot. I am glad you will move her being so close ..ugh its gotta be hell

its not a nice feeling today she decided to clean and polish her car but this is practically outside my front door, answering the door to anybody or anybody comming in she knows sort of whats going on in my house , well thats how it feels to me , one of the reasons i dont want daughter to have anything to do with her ,
she used so much of what she knows about us to get us to fight last year , and at one point when hubby wasnt going in there she wouldnt speak to him but when she found out he was talking to me she interfered again asnd we fell out , but like i said we know she plays ppl its her pasttime as long as we stay on a untied front we will be strong