[babygirl]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 16 months and we are very serious. Last night His best friend, who I see as a friend also, and I had a three-some. My boyfriend seemed really happy to be doing this, smiling, participating..ect. But I have some concerns; This morning he was not acting as cuddly as he usually does. I'm afraid that maybe he regrets it or is shocked, but how do I approach him, or should I not approach him and just continue on with him.

[darkeyes]

Did you both discuss this before you did this? Do you think now you have both lost respect for one another? I hope you all practiced SAFE sex!! I wish I could offer you some advice but honestly what you guys did I personally may have only fantasized about, never actually doing it. I hope you all will be able to remain friends after.
"darkeyes"

[curlyq]

Hi. Welcome. I would just come out and ask him if anything is bothering him and tell him he seems to be acting differently. That's just being honest and open with him. In a relationship that's important. Best wishes with it and hope you'll post some more.

<font color=purple>"Shared joy is double joy; Shared sorrow is half-sorrow." Swedish Proverb</font color=purple>

[kitty]

I agree, you should definitely discuss this with him before it gets out of hand, but this is also something you should have discussed before it happened. I have no problem with three-somes, however, I don't think it is a good idea for a committed couple to engage in this. It just does not seem like it would be good for the relationship. Too many issues would come up. Maybe he had fun, but is now regretting it or can't get the images of you and the other guy out of his mind. Or maybe he is fine with it and you are concerned and are reading things into how he is acting. good luck.