[xxisabellaxx]

oh wow where to start well my friend stevie i met him on tumblr like 3 months ago and although i never met him in person, i have a lot of feelings for him.he's helped me through so many rough nights he talked me out of suicide. and i helped him through his rrecent break up. He told me he would date me if i lived near him well whatever i'm never going to meet him he lives in freaking canada, and i'm stuck here in my freaking town. great all my anxiety about dating is coming back, i'm never going to meet someone in my state or town. I'm just ready to give up on love. My best relationship is probably going to be my last. and i just want to tell Stevie all my feelings but i don't want to sound stupid or get his hopes up :'(

[Leed]

Well, there''s really no point in telling him because you feel you'll never get to see him right? Is there no way you'll be able to meet him? If you feel there's no way, then I wouldn't tell him I guess. Like you said, it would get his hopes up -- assuming that is, that HE feels the same as YOU do. Do you know if he does? Has he SAID that he feels the same? I would hate to have you get hurt by telliing him how you feel, only to have him tell YOU that he doesn't feel the same.

So it's best to not tell him -- just keep it to yourself. And I'm SURE you will find someone that you will love. You are very young -- and you have your whole life ahead of you. Don't give up -- there's plenty of time.

God bless & please take care. Hugs, Lee

What an amazing friend you have! Its not really a shock that you have feelings, he's been just brilliant towards you. You could tell him what you feel, but it would be so hard for you both, being in different countries. I know you'd love to meet him but you could also be thankful for having such a great friend, and work on keeping your friendship going. A good friend is worth loads more than a date or two and can last a lifetime. You'll deffo meet someone in your own town, it just takes time.

Take good care :-)

[xxisabellaxx]

yeah thanks, i don't know why i posted this i guess it was just venting i actually am in a long distance relationship right now. Everything is good emotionally with us it's just the psychical part i'm missing. I'm not telling stevie anything...

To be honest, if he said he isn't willing to date you because you live too far away thats pretty much the end of the matter anyway - as for long distance relationships, in my experience they rarely work out, how far do you live from this person? I don't think you'll be able to go forever without the physical intimacy but remember to take things slow and never do anything you aren't sure of or are pressured into. If you do meet up with this person, take someone with you and meet in a public place. Hope ive been helpful.

[xxisabellaxx]

well my boyfriend Noah lives 3251 miles away in san diego. so pretty much on the other side of the continent. i don't even care about my feelings for stevie anymore. As for noah, i'm taking it pretty slow