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May 29, 2006, 11:00 PM
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Everyone reacts differently to affection. I tend to get clostrofobia. I want to not let love make me sick. (feel closed in, mental closing in and physical closing in) I just want to have my space-My own home (which I have-an apartment) The relationship I 've been in has to change to my better way and he could be less clingy. (he is not going to change) So I have grown, but I have my saturation point of what is too much for my nerves and system, which is delicate. We have been girlfriend and boyfriend for over 6 years. We now live in separate places. I want to keep my own place. Even though I told him I might move in with him, I feel like that would not be a good plan. I am getting a sick feeling and am going on a slight downward spiral right now. It still isn't the time, I am sorry but have to honestly say, I still can't do it. We lived together for 4 years but it wasn;'t all good. I think I better keep the way it is and the way I have it. I can still do that. I really don't have to move in to his house because I can change my mind and I have already changed my mind. I need to trust myself and take my decision to heart. I have changed my mind and I am not going to move to his house, for my mental health sake, I don't have to and that is just ok.
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May 30, 2006, 01:54 PM
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Good for YOU, for knowing what you want and what you do not want....
NOW, the tough question.... Why do YOU think / feel that you are afraid of LoVe? - hence the over whelming feeling you get inside when he gets to close. LoVe, Rhapsody - 
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