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Oct 21, 2012, 09:17 AM
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Ok, here goes...I never fully feel satisfied sexually in any relationship that I've ever had. It's like I want something more...I want to be dominated and I don't feel like my partner can give me that. Not to say that he's bad in bed because that's just not the case. I just want and crave excitement and something kinky. Is there something wrong with me?
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Oct 21, 2012, 12:13 PM
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Absolutely nothing wrong with you! I always say if its consenting, and not with animals or kids (gross & very wrong and they cant consent) then there's nothing wrong with it.
Have you ever considered talking to your partner? He may be thinking right now "I wish we could try something new, but am afraid she will think I am being kinky".... talking is the key! Neither of you are mind-readers! I am not particularly kinky, but my partner and I years back got a bit bored. After talking we each wrote 10 fantasies on bits of paper and put it into a jar. Every so often, we'd pull one out and did it! It was fun, exciting and I loved the communication. Hope thats not tmi! Best of luck and hope you'll be satisfied soon, grins '-) |
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Oct 21, 2012, 07:29 PM
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Riotgrrrl gave flawless advice.
 Talk to him! lol There's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a little "flare" in the bedroom. You're perfectly fine.
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Oct 22, 2012, 03:57 AM
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Oct 22, 2012, 05:12 AM
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Oct 24, 2012, 06:00 PM
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If there is something wrong with you, then there is something wrong with me too.
 I was under the impression that guys love that kind of domination stuff -- they're just too smart to actually try it out on someone. Who knows, he might be hiding that ravisher underneath his soft skin? |
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Oct 24, 2012, 08:21 PM
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If you're going to look into any type of restraint make sure you research it and its uses.
Here is a link to an informative on hand restraints: http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/how-...ed-237673.html IF YOU DO THIS TYPE OF PLAY, HAVE A SAFEWORD! Typically using 'STOP' is not the best safe word because some people may take it as "Oh s/he likes it so I'll just continue." Try using a word that isn't normally a part of sex-dialogue. Like a fruit or inanimate object. Practice using the word, and once both partners are comfortable and can easily identify the word, THEN do the light bondage. I know it seems like a lot of work but safe words are important in any kind of play.
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Oct 25, 2012, 09:33 PM
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I've heard "giraffe" is a pretty common safe word, as it's something that isn't usually thrown out in the middle of sex (lol Well, I wouldn't think, anyway...it'd be interesting
 ). That's just an example I've heard. Confused is very right in saying there should be a safe word, and a very "off the wall" one so there is no chance of confusion.
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