[xspartathemongoosex]

Okay, so my girlfriends mother hates me. And yesterday she forbid us from speaking to each other and i dont know why. This is the girl that has been with me through everything, saved my life several times, got me to quit cutting for the most part, and she is the girl ive loved since 4th grade. I dont want to leave her but i feel terrible for being so worthless to everyone and that causs alot of problems for us. She is a very depressed, suicidal person and im scared of what she may do. Hell, im scared of what i may do. Im genuinly feeling suicidal and i dont know how to fix this...
Help me, i dont want to leave her but all of these thoughts make so much sense..

Any advice?

[hamster-bamster]

Both of you should see a professional.

I agree with HB...I encouage you both to see a T and start working on things. Best wishes to you.

[Harley47]

I agree with HB and Rose...if you two truly do feel this way, you need to try to see someone who can help you both manage those feelings in a constructive way.

That aside, can you isolate why she is so opposed to you? I know what I'm about to propose is far from easy, but could you perhaps talk to her and understand why she feels this way, and if there is any way you could fix this? Her understanding that you truly do care for her daughter and that her approval matters could go longer than you can begin to realize. If that falls through...I don't like proposing people do things behind one's back, but how viable do you think things are without her approval? You both seem to respect her word a lot if her "decree" is enough to prompt this much fear.

I'll be tracking this topic for a reply. Please, no matter what happens, don't do anything rash, and I beg you to ask the same of her. Suicide only cheats you out of the opportunity for things to improve, and in your case, precludes any possibility of things working out in the long term.

I wish you both my best, and God bless.

Hugs,
Harley

Wow, professionals. They know everything.