My Mother!!

oceancries · Dec 05, 2012, 08:25 PM

So my mother has known since November 1st that I have my tutoring sessions every Thursday and she still scheduled to do a friend's hair tomorrow. omg. She does this crap on purpose. last week she made me go home on Wednesday because she decided to stay out late on Wednesday.

Now she thinks doing her boss's hair is more important than being around to be able to pick me up.

This pisses me off.

I am the one whos going to get in trouble with my director. Not her.

Everytime! She does this every time! She knows that every thursday I have tutor session but she plans something on top of it so I cant go. She doesnt have to do her boss's hair. I am her obligation not that lady! Its not fair!!

So my mom so kindly called me a piece of crap just a few moments ago.

why?

I tried asking her if she could reschedule the thing with her boss since its not even business. shes going to her boss's hair as a favor. omg. she could so reschedule that but she likes making my life hell. ><

She said "Shut up. You're a piece of crap."(in spanish)

I said "No Im not...."

and she was like "Yes you. Im telling you the truth. you're a piece of crap."(in spanish)

and I almost cried and whispered "No Im not."

I swear shes horrible

She thinks I am wrong when I told her I should come before her boss with things like this. Am I wrong to think picking me up from tutoring is more important than doing a lady's hair? I need to be tutored and I need to be there as a tutor. Is it wrong of me to think that way? I mean Im her daughter. and this boss is just her boss. its not fair. The lady could do her own damn hair. but I cant pick myself up. ><

Leed · Dec 05, 2012, 08:38 PM

I'm sorry honey. I do agree with you on this one. I do think your tutoring is more important than anyones' hair. That could be scheduled after she picked you up, or the next day. It shouldn't be that big of a problem.

Why is your mother making it such a big issue? Would she get fired if she rescheduled it? I really doubt it.

I don't know what you tell you honey. It seems that you don't have a very good relationship with your Mom.

Are you in therapy? Can you talk to your school counselor about it? Or if you're not in school, can you talk to your tutor the next time you see him/her? You really need someone to talk to.

I wish you the very best. Please keep us informed, okay? We DO care! Hugs, Lee

oceancries · Dec 05, 2012, 08:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Leed

I'm sorry honey. I do agree with you on this one. I do think your tutoring is more important than anyones' hair. That could be scheduled after she picked you up, or the next day. It shouldn't be that big of a problem.

Why is your mother making it such a big issue? Would she get fired if she rescheduled it? I really doubt it.

I don't know what you tell you honey. It seems that you don't have a very good relationship with your Mom.

Are you in therapy? Can you talk to your school counselor about it? Or if you're not in school, can you talk to your tutor the next time you see him/her? You really need someone to talk to.

I wish you the very best. Please keep us informed, okay? We DO care! Hugs, Lee

nope. she would not get fired. :/ but she doesnt listen to reason, eh.

Yeah I have a tough relationship with her sadly. :/

Not yet. Im planning to be in therapy soon. I couldnt tell my school counselor not much she can do for me since shes not certified. And yes Im in school. :3 Junior btw.

:S

I wish she was as understanding as you.