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Old Dec 22, 2012, 11:30 AM
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I dont' want to say i refuse sex with her, because I really don't feel that strongly that i don't want to sleep with her, it's just that sometimes i don't think it's a good idea because i'm still sore and she seems cold and distant so i say no. Then every now and again she gets mad and strikes me with her hand, it doesn't hurt or anything but she's nuts.

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Old Dec 22, 2012, 03:01 PM
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No means No!! Striking you with her hand is abuse plain & simple.
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Old Dec 23, 2012, 01:03 AM
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Illegal Toilet,

I see lots of Danger Zone signs on this relationship! Your gf doesn't ever have the right to slap you around. No means "no"!! If she's going to become all huffy and put on a hissy fit because she isn't getting sex when she wants it...tough! I wouldn't be real eager to give in to a person who reacted this way if I said "no" either.

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Old Dec 23, 2012, 01:21 AM
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No means No!! Striking you with her hand is abuse plain & simple.
Exactly..........
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Old Dec 23, 2012, 07:58 AM
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I wouldn't call it physical abuse, maybe just mental intimidation.

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Old Dec 23, 2012, 02:41 PM
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If it were the other way around and a man hitting and slapping a women when she said no to sex what would you call it ?
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Old Dec 23, 2012, 06:56 PM
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Know how this feels. Hope you find some kind of resolution or fix or a way out.
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