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So I was having a chat to someone who is important to me ... (doesn't matter in what medium).
We have talked a while. Sometimes we have had differences of opinion, esp lately, but I thought we were over that. Tonight we were talking and my laptop froze. I came back after rebooting to 'I never want to speak to you again, that was very rude'. And I think he has blocked me from email as I haven't got any reply to my apology. I feeling crappy already and now this, why is what I do never good enough? ![]() |
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DSF,
I'm sorry this has happened to you. Hugs, EJ |
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but EJ what do i DO????
i want him to know that i just froze up my laptop ... that i wasn't being rude ... but the message implied i am blocked everywhere now ... im so frustrated. |
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I can certainly understand your hurt and frustration. You didn't do anything wrong. This person needs to communicate his/her feelings with you instead of just having a fit and assuming what happened. They don't know and didn't even ask to find out the truth.
I'm sorry this person won't even talk to you. He/she should at least give you the benefit of the doubt. (((((drunksunflower)))))
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modern technology, gotta love it.......
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Sorry this happen, attempt to explain some how, and let him cool down, he may think you dissed him intentionally. I hope all works out for you.
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Thank you all ... I just hate being on people's bad side
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It's fixed ... I did a sneaky and sent an email from an old email address so it would get through!!!
Naughty but necessary ![]() |
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Thats the way to do it lol, show how much you care and they will realise just how much you care and it may even bring you closer. You need to fight for wat you want in this world, and im proud that you are, way to go!
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
simply_simon said: Thats the way to do it lol, show how much you care and they will realise just how much you care and it may even bring you closer. You need to fight for wat you want in this world, and im proud that you are, way to go! </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Thank you sweetie that's such a cool thing to say *hugs* |
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DSF, this isn't about you, whether you do right or do wrong or not good enough. This is about the other person! Apparently, he isn't understanding nor does he even want to know the truth. His reaction, to me, is a bit over the top! Perhaps you're better off without him. He certainly need to learn better communication skills and not assume he knows!
Hang in there!
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ty sept
![]() he says he was a bit hasty and assumed i had logged off on purpose and to upset him, because he was in a really bad mindset and took my sudden departure in the worst way possible ... |
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In your case I am in question of something. Is this person your friend really? Even if you did have differences, it seems that he didn't need much to stop communicating with you. His reaction was too harsh and too final. A friend is not like that. You might be considering him as a friend but look at what he put you through. Not to mention the time you've put in trying to fix things!
This is my observation. |
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