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Jan 13, 2013 at 12:31 PM
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My husband has been working with my father in his recording studio, they have a few artists right now and one is a talented girl in her early 20s.
"I just want to let you know that 'R' asked for some notes on her songs and vocals so if you see emails back and forth that's what it's about... And nothing else. I know how your mind works..." My husband just said this to me... Makes me feel like an ***hole. he's right, if I saw him emailing back and forth with a woman I would panic,.. My heart would drop... Fear of him cheating an abandonment will sink in, I will start a fight. I wish I knew why I was like this. __________________ Diagnosis: Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Rapid Cycling Bipolar 2 with mixed episodes. 10mgs Prozac |
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Jan 13, 2013 at 12:50 PM
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Has he given you reason to not trust him?
My heart sinks every time I hear the ding of a text message or email on my husband's phone, but he has broken my trust in the past. Even now when we're trying to reconcile, I find it difficult. For ten years my husband made me feel "unloved" by not making me a priority, by withholding communication and looking to fulfill his needs outside our marriage (with porn and online relationships). I commend your husband for initiating the communication and trying to ease your fears. That being said, only you know whether or not you can trust what he is saying. Wishing you love and PEACE. |
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Jan 13, 2013 at 01:59 PM
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Panic and heart dropping are GAD symptoms. It is not your fault - it is your illness. |
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Jan 14, 2013 at 02:10 PM
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Be happy about that! |
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