i'm pretty sure it's mostly because i've been really stressed out lately, but my husband didn't tell me about the accident he had last week in a restaurant parking lot. maybe he just forgot, but i don't know how you can forget that sort of thing.

i just found out about it because the insurance company called, wanting to talk to him about it. i don't know anything about it, not even what kind of accident it was, just that it was last Friday. he was pretty late coming home. he just said it was a long day.

the car is fine. there's nothing noticeably wrong with it. i just drove it yesterday, but i wasn't looking for anything. just hoping it was something simple like he scratched someone's door as he was opening his door. hopefully it won't put us under somehow.

this concerns me. if he's going to keep something like this from me, what else is he hiding?

i plan to talk to him calmly about it this afternoon, when he gets home from work.

what would you do or say?

"Babe, the insurance company called today about the car accident. What happened?"

[Bipolar mom]

^agreed.

Remain calm and don't sound accusatory, just flat out as him what happened.