[Missbest01]

I met this guy on net 5 years back. we became kinda best friends. I never met him . After 2 or 3 months, my family got to know about it and i told him that i cannot afford our frndshp, he said i understand. we broke up peace fully. Later some misunderstandings were created by my fiance between him and me. My fiance thinks i have a soft corner for that friend. Even my fiance insulted him for visiting my profile, but still he kept visiting. Years passed. one day i just texted him and he replied. and we started texting like we used to 5 years ago. texting day n night for 3 days.just random things. nothing romantic whatsoever. then he asked me to come to skype. for voice call .he worked in a call center. then we skyped for almost one week during all his office . I felt the warmth of love in his voice for me. He was so happy when i talked to him first on the skype. later when i asked him....he said, no answer. dont seek answers. he even hugged me virtually. and may be wanted to move a bit further but i stopped him.
Then he restricted himself and slowly stopped replying my messages.in other words, he moved on. But I am still there.Unsure of his feelings ................oh GOD!....Did he love me? or even he was not even a true friend.?

[Travelinglady]

Well, I gather you were sort of friends, at least to the extent you two kept in touch via electronics. But I honestly don't think you need to even dwell on this issue at this point. You now have a fiance, and I believe it's for the best that you and he work on your relationship. There is such a thing as an "emotional affair," and even though no physical relationship takes place, it can still damage a marriage or a planned marriage. I suggest you move on. This guy was a good thing while it lasted, but you have a new man now and he should come first. You are playing with fire if you try to push something with the former guy, in my opinion. Your fiance is bothered by your trying to keep in touch with this guy, which certainly suggests he believes you are still trying to maintain a relationship that's too important to you in an emotional way.

[hamster-bamster]

Originally Posted by Missbest01

I felt the warmth of love in his voice for me.

I do understand. Initially I thought that it was sheer nonsense, an exchange of voluminous verbiage via electronic means that does not amount to anything, but if you heard his voice, I do see how you would react with longing.

But still, you are taking it too far asking the questions such as whether he loved you. He has never met you. You have never met him. It probably is necessary to have some minimal RL interaction with somebody in order to love that person. So the answer is probably "no, he did not", not because you are unlovable or unworthy of his love or anything of that sort, but just because he has never had a chance to go through those minimally necessary RL interactions with you.