[specclin]

Trying to deal with my daughter's decision to date a man I know that is in prison. He isn't a bad person,just made a really bad chose in his life.And know it is affecting my hole family. We all love her so much and understand that, you never know where you will find true love. But we can see that at her age 27,she is making a very bad chose. She still lives at home with use and is willing to put her life on hold for 7,yes I did say ( 7 ) years with another 10 on paper. It is just braking my heart to watch this happen.

[Leed]

I'm so sorry ! But at her age of 27, there really isn't much you can do. I really feel for you, I really do and I agree that her choice is a bad one. She's only going to have heartache if and when he gets out. He's going to find it extremely difficult to find a job, being an ex-con so if she thinks he's going to be able to support her, she's seriously wrong. I'm afraid it's going to be the opposite.

If she does wait for him, she's going to have a very rough life. I don't know why he went to prison, but since it's going to be hard for him on the 'outside' he liable to go back to his "old ways."

Again, I'm sorry and my prayers are with you. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee

[hamster-bamster]

I agree with Lee and hope the situation will eventually self-resolve. There is nothing you can do. It must hurt immensely, yet, there is nothing you can do.

Hopefully with time another man will appear in her life.