[f0rever-unhappy]

ok so there was this guy that i kind of had a relationship with like months ago, a few dates and kisses and phone conversations- but it didn't work out. he was the first guy i have truly invested time to and allowed myself to like instead of just hooking up with him. we have been over for several months and i was over him for moths, like 5 maybe but now all of a sudden i can't stop thinking about him.. this doesn't make sense, why is this alll of a sudden happening?? ugh, we aren't good for each other and i do not want to try to get back into that. how do i make this go away?

[BonnieG2010]

attaching to another guy, even if only in your thoughts.
A new one will send the old one away.

[Perna]

Why are you thinking about him? Is there some other guy you are afraid to like because it might not work out so you are thinking about this guy who is "safe" because he's in your past? I'd say you are either wishing for a relationship or afraid to start one and/or have relationships on your mind and this is your only experience so far so not like you can think about another, different one?

[txgirl55]

You must move on..If you know that you do not want this guy again, it is okay to let go. Perhaps, you just miss him, thats why you are constantly thinking about him. I have dreams about the guy I am suppose to be with, but he lives so far away from me, and its because I miss him..but if we were meant to be together, we would have been. Sometimes you just have to know when to move forward.