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May 16, 2013, 11:09 PM
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I feel lost and betrayed right now. Every day my husband becomes more and more distant. He has been out of town for four days and I can't see where he missed me at all. I don't know what to do anymore. No sex. No communication. I am ignored regularly. I wish I knew what the hell is going on. He doesn't tell me anything. I have PTSD and other issues. He doesn't seem to care . Has. No desire to help in any way. Been together since 99. I com nolu huea one thing. Hoe DNA someone be so cold ane cruel. Im at a loss for words
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May 17, 2013, 05:06 AM
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Hi Laurie ~ If this change has come about rather sudden, I would wonder too!
Does his job take him out of town, or did he just leave? Didn't he tell you where he was going? You have a RIGHT to know where he has been and WHAT he has been doing. Ask him if the role was reversed, what would happen? If YOU had been gone 4 days, and didn't say anything, what would happen? Wouldn't HE be upset? Wouldn't HE wonder what was going on? Wouldn't HE be hurt and confused? And what about sex? If YOU didn't want sex anymore, what would HE think? If you turn everything around, perhaps he'll understand why YOU are so upset! I wouldn't put up with this -- it sounds to me like he has someone else! Of course you would have to have some proof. Can you get into his cell phone and find out? It's up to you to find out what's going on. Try to communicate without fighting. Keep urging him to talk to you -- he can't keep silent forever. Ask him to go to marriage counseling with you -- otherwise this marriage may be doomed. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee 
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May 17, 2013, 07:40 PM
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Hey..
I don't want to put thoughts into your head, but is there any chance that he may be having an affair? I agree with Leed's thoughts here. If he was out of town and doesn't talk to you.. and doesn't talk to you at home. Also the lack of desire. Do you think there have been any other signs to point towards this? I really don't want to upset you, but thought it may be worth considering as there surely has to be something that is causing his behaviour towards you. Hugs |
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