[angelagene]

hi.... My husband is very nice and loves me a lot. We have been married for last 5 years, but in the month of march he called somebody while sitting in the bathroom. That person did not recieve the call, but later on sent a message asking who is this. My husband saw that message and deleted it without replying. But when i checked the months call details he replied on that number later. He sent 2 messages and even made a call next day. No doubt the number on which he made a call is more than 1000 kms away. Then he did not make or receive any call to that number in the month of april, but again on may 29 he send i message. Of course he deleted it from sent items, but i got to know through message recipent that a msg has been sent.
What is the meaning of all this...what should i make out???? I know my husband loves me a lot but still....... is my husband betraying me?

[hamster-bamster]

Where are you checking? Do you have a joint mobile phone plan?

[roads]

With five good years of a relationship behind us, I'd ask him. It would bug me no end--I'd have to find out, & there's no reason not to be straightforward about it.
Admit it's silly, admit you hate being suspicious, then simply come out with it. Find out--hopefully laugh about it--& move on.
Good luck!
Roadie

if you guys have had no trouble until recently, then bring it up. communication is a necessary tool in relationships. you'll never know if you don't ask.

i know my husband is forgetful. maybe the first time he called/messaged this number, it was the wrong number, and he had forgotten by the next time and just called to make sure it wasn't someone he knew that he'd deleted from his contact list. i have this happen to me sometimes.

just ask. it shouldn't hurt to ask if you haven't had any prior issues.

[adam_k]

I would ask him about it. It maybe not what it appears. Possible estranged family he doesn't like to talk to anymore. I would try to be non confrontational and just ask for honesty.