[tinyluv91]

I'm having the hardest Time ever trying to future out what to do with my boyfriend
I love him so much but he's made some mistakes,that are what seems to be so rank challenging to get over....
some months back we had bin arguing over every little thing,
I have an issue of obsessing about what if and each n every diff. perspective
he smoked weed while me and my 12yr old sis were in the gas station,thinkin we were goin to get in as if nun happend! two o'clock me n my sis healking home did h_im....I forgave him!!
A short time after, he just up and left me because I didn't agree with him switching his mind and being selfish_were supposed to be a team_
I had a seizure after tryin to talk it out...three-days later he missed me and had no idea y he was goin against me....I took him back because I could. see in his eyes he ment what be was apologizing for....Now!!!!!!it seems we have returned to that chApter once again,only this time because I don't see him affectionate often like before,he keeps things to himself_a very quit person who holds things in most people wouldnt_ I always talk about leaving during an argument just because I'm paranoid I won't be prepared. if I ent acknowledge the past actions,he doesn't take the time anymore to look at me to say I'm beautiful like before no more sweet text messEs and never wants to talk to make things better.and for my worries he gets mad at me when he did the actions.......I've talked to him over n over what do I do if that hasn't helped???????HELP PLEASE!!

[Travelinglady]

Have you considered talking to a counselor? Maybe he will go with you. If not, then you might want to go yourself.

Just remember, please, that he has to be willing to work with you. If he won't listen to your reasonable requests and keeps hurting you, then you might want to re-consider your relationship.