[bluegirl007]

my boyfriend has cheated on me so many times I've lost count, don't have the money to leave and it just freaking sucks! I feel so trapped like a caged animal. Just want to get out of here.

[hamster-bamster]

why are you doing that - posting several threads that contradict each other??!!

you complain of his behaviors on several threads, and yet ask if you should marry him on yet another thread!

I think I can speak for the chorus here - do not marry him!

[bluegirl007]

It's called depression!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[bluegirl007]

Any more questions!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Perna]

You have to decide what you want and work toward that.

[pinkbutterfly]

I know how it is to want to leave but not be able to...it took me years to leave my husband...it's hard to leave when you don't have the funds. It might take time, but start saving up a little bit here and there...or see if you can find someone to stay with or help you to get out of the relationship.

[stephson23]

i know how this is its a total trap do you have anyone you can ask for help? and yes you have to decide to make a change its important just say it to yourself everyday. take care please!

I can see you are having quite a few issues with your boyfriend. If this kind of thing is happening all the time. It probably good to spend some time alone to figure it all out. I find that abusive men that have the control in a relationship will do anything to make sure you dont leave them. I would really suggest some time alone if you can manage it? Stay with a friend or family member?