[rigaschuckler]

I know life is full of negatives and positives !!!!
But some memories will be there which you never want to remember and some people too you never want to see again!!!
Normally bullying happens in high school but in my case it occurred in my college.I had some room mates there who treated me very badly, always abusing me, and making me buy them stuffs everyday by physical and mental intimidation.They never understood me and i was a subject of fun or scorn for them.
My question is will you ever see these people who once treated you bad and if so what will you do? will you talk to them or just walk away?Like not giving them any attention? Never contacting them? And is it okay if i never invited them to my marriage? (They used to tell me i am an imbecile

[gnat]

When I run into such people, I kind of treat them like strangers. I try not to be overly friendly or go out of my way to avoid them, nor do I confront them. Well, with one exception (that was fun).

I certainly wouldn't have invited them to my wedding. You don't owe them that honor. Myself, I'd try to move on, find people who treat me respectfully.

Oddly enough, I did end up in a situation where a girl who used to torment me until one day I chased her down when I saw her without her circle of friends and confronted her *basking in the glory of that moment* and saw the real her, the whimpering, cowering girl who bullied me because of her own insecurities, she never bullied me again and when we ended up with the same mutual friend later on and ran into each other we didn't exactly become friends, but were able to be mutually respectful.

Good luck with them and remember, you're not the one with the issue, they are.

[rigaschuckler]

Thank you friend,
Its is really confusing sometimes and anyway i believe that when we get older we will get more good justifications for all of those pertinent stuffs