[Dimoniquecc]

I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 9 months now. My issue with him is how much he communicates with his Ex's and the things he has said to them were inappropriate from hi beautiful , to them hanging out together , to her sending him a forward message about If she wants to marry him an his response was "I Do I Do I Do..." Am I tripping or What ? It isn't just one ex it's about 4-5 and all of the ex's he communicate with he has either slept with them or they never dated but he still slept with them.Mind you I'm 38 weeks pregnant and alot of this is just coming out now that I'm pregnant he use to hold alot of information in now he feels he can tell the truth because I'm pregnant? Please help should I stay or go

[gayleggg]

I understand your concern. Sounds like he is being very inappropiate with these ex's. Personally, I would get out due to I could never trust him again, however, I'm not pregnant and I don't know your financial situation. I know it must be really hard for you at this point to have to find this out and to put up with it. Good luck to you.

[healingme4me]

38 weeks pregnant, and he's divulging all of this to you, right now? Saying 'I do' to a marriage proposal from another woman, hurtful, inappropriate and downright cruel to the woman who is about to have his baby.

Ultimatums, don't really work--word from the wise here on that.

One way to start... "I'm having a baby with you, and was under the impression that we'd committedly raise this child together. It really stings to know that you are still communicating with 4-5 of your previous lovers. I can't ask you to stop talking to them, that would be unfair on my part. What can you do, to assure me, that you are as committed to me, as I am to you?"

((that tosses the ball back in his court. And whatever answer he gives, hun, is the answer you decide on.))