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Oct 04, 2013 at 04:41 PM
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I have a choice to make, and it's one that is incredibly difficult to me. I have been seeing someone I met online and things got very physical very quickly, but I don't know if I like them emotionally or mentally. Then there is my now ex-girlfriend who regrets breaking up with me and wants to see me again. There is also a third party, but currently only a friend, who I would like to pursue and makes me feel like a teenager again.
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Oct 04, 2013 at 06:28 PM
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If things got too physical, too fast, with the person you are seeing now, before you'd decided whether you actually like them emotionally or mentally, is there a remote chance of liking them that deeply? And with the friend that leaves you feeling like a teenager, again, is there a chance there? |
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Oct 05, 2013 at 04:24 AM
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I'm really not sure on either front. I would ultimately enjoy a more personal relationship with either, but I know I cannot choose both.
One is more physically stimulating and affectionate while the other is more intellectually approachable and shares more similar interests and ideals. Also the one that makes me feel giddy is someone I crushed on in high school but never approached until now. __________________ The last temptation is the greatest treason: to do the right deed for the wrong reason. - T. S. Eliot |
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