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Alright, there are these two sister, for stories sake, ill name one sister Kate and the other Stephanie. About a year ago my friend introduced me to his "best friend", Stephanie. Stephanie then introduced me to her sister, Kate. Later that night after all 4 of us hung out, my friend got a text from Stephanie asking me to rate the both of them. I did and she seemed happy. Later, I found out that Kate likes me, but I don't feel the same way about her, I like Stephanie. So fast forward a few months later, Kate asked me for my number, I gave it to her and we began texting. Out of no where I get some random voice message and texts, I ask who it is and I find out that it's Stephanie. So we chat for about an you (through text) and then we stopped. Over the course of about a few months, I'd send a few texts to Stephanie, to which she would either reply late or not at all. When I saw her next, I asked what was going on, and she said her phone doesn't work right all the time. I say ok and brush it off. About 3 months ago, I text her again when she got the new iPhone 5, but she didn't respond, about a week or two later, I text her again, and once more she didn't respond. When we hungout for the last time during the summer break, I made an Instagram account, and almost all of the pics I put up in there, she's liked.
Whenever we've hungout, it's been with my good friend. It's never really been just her and I, so whenever we hangout, she seemed absolutely obsessed with my friend (they're known for being best friends, he has feelings for her. But they're not mutual, she told me that she used to like him but not anymore). Most of the time we all hangout, I kinda feel like a third wheel, in a sense. The times that her and I have text, she includes a lot of happy faces and stuff. So fast forward to today, I text her for haircut advise, and she completely ignored the text and told me a big "secret", that her sister likes me. So she said "This weekend you, me, my boyfriend, and Kate should all go to the movies together! Ask her out! ![]() So I'm not too clear on our relationship, like, does she think of me as a friend, does she like me more than a friend, where does our relationship stand exactly? Friends? Acquaintances? Friends because we have a good mutual friend? Only friends cause her sister likes me? This was the first time she's actually text me (well, text back) within a few months or so, and the thing is, if she actually did like me more than friends, wouldn't she be inclined to text me back or to text me to start a conversation? Sometimes when I text her on my iPad, it'll say "Message Read at..." But apparently she doesn't respond. I kinda feel like she only text me back cause her sister likes me, and that's the only reason. Oh, and after we starting texting about plans for this weekend I asked "So how've you been? We haven't text in a long time" she replied "Your Welcome! And I know. I miss you. I've been good! How about you? Do you think you'll get Call of Duty Ghosts in November? I mean, she's sending me so many mixed messages. When we all (her, our mutual friend, and I) hangout, she doesn't always notice me so much, and she is kinda obsessed with our mutual friend, when I text her, she doesn't always respond, when she does text me it's either brief and we don't have a full conversation, or we have a really good one and she includes lots of smilies. Oh, and I forgot one thing. Sometimes we all go ice skating as a group, and some of those times that we've all gone ice skating, she's helped me by holding my hands and skating backwards (I don't know how to ice skate very well), and as a group, including her, she's tried to "hook me up" with a few girls phone numbers at the skating rink. Like one time I was really nervous about talking to this one girl, so she went with me to help the ackward moments. I'm fact, she's the one who asked for the girls phone number for me. If you couldn't tell, this is mostly about Stephanie. I already know Kate and mines relationship, she has feelings for me, but I just wanna remain good friends. |
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