[LadyShadow]

Hello everyone!

So I talked to someone online tonight, that I get along really great with. We spoke for about 4 or 5 hours about everything and anything. It was nice exchanging ideas and I really like this guy. He showed me his pictures and is very cute plus he is local which is an added plus because usually people I chat with are too far away.

Here's the problem. He admitted to me that he has a small penis and has a problem with pre-ejaculation. I don't know why this bothers me so much since me and my ex never had sex and that didn't stop me from loving him any less.

So is this a deal breaker? I vowed to myself after my last relationship ended that I would try and give sex another try since my I haven't had sex in three years. Also, my first boyfriend used to ejaculate prematurely all the time and I never found sex enjoyable with him. I guess that experience is sticking in my mind when I try to think about this new guy in a romantic way.

I know its the really early stages since we are just chat buddies right now, but I notice that I hesitated when I considered giving him my number. Am I a bad person for thinking this may be a deal breaker? Anyone with similar experiences?

[SadMelody]

I've endured all my deal breakers until they become the norm, the hallmark of Really Bad Relationships. Lying was the big one (next to clear abuse) but by the end he lied more than I thought possible; after we split up, what I found out was beyond humiliating. But I'm the fool still thinking about him.

[LadyShadow]

Originally Posted by SadMelody

I've endured all my deal breakers until they become the norm, the hallmark of Really Bad Relationships. Lying was the big one (next to clear abuse) but by the end he lied more than I thought possible; after we split up, what I found out was beyond humiliating. But I'm the fool still thinking about him.

Yes I understand, and I would hate to lie, so I think its best I cut off communication. Thanks for your input.