[Bugeaud]

There's this girl, and we get along well. Sometimes I feel like she's staring at me, but I'm not really sure.She's beautiful, kind, and with a good sense of humour. We always end up as a pair in one sense or another. I guess in my dreams recently, she's the one in my dreams. The question is, could this actually be something, or is all this love nonsense a figment of my imagination?

But the truth is, I know nothing about love.. even though I was in a relationship for years, nowadays I'm sort of questioning the reality of that bygone relationship. I guess it was the closest to love I ever was, but from my current perspective, I view my former self as obsessed and extremely self-deprecating. Maybe today I am detached and selfish. Hard to tell.

Anyways, this sort of thing keeps happening to me, whether or not a girl likes me... any suggestions, general or specific, are good.

[manwithnofriends]

i guess you could ask those in the Sleep Issues forum about it

[curley]

Hey Bug, it seems that maybe you are worried to much about whether the girl "likes" you or not. I am assuming by Likes you mean as more then a friend. I would just spend time hanging out. Being friends, learning about her, or learning about anyone else that you are interested in. Love or being in love can grow or not, it will eventually be obvious. Do not rush into it! Do not push it just let the relationship grow and then make a decision!!!

[Bugeaud]

curley, you're right. The thing is, I have trouble growing any sort of friendship.. Often I feel like the only one making moves to be someone's friend, and that tends to eat away at me after a while, and slowly I enter a depression where I feel like it's totally pointless to even try. That's the way it tends to go.